WHMWTD…a series of posts that point to the need for us to continue striving to make the fraternity and sorority community a place where men can become better men and women better women. We Have More Work To Do! This situation saddens me as I actually know some of the current members and many of their alumni.  I know they can do better than this… We need to continue or, in some cases, start the conversation about derogatory party themes.